The Engagement Reset COURSE
For couples who want engagement to feel aligned, connected, and actually manageable again — without the noise. Move forward with more clarity, steadiness, and space to breathe. Enroll now. Start on February 14th.
START YOUR RESET
A companion for how you plan.
Wedding planning doesn’t have to run on stress. Here, you plan with more connection, intention, and calm — not by swapping out your tools, but by strengthening the way you move through them together.
You’ll learn to regulate your energy, communicate with more clarity, and bring steadiness to the decisions that matter most. Think of it as a rhythm-led reset for the season you’re in — one that supports your relationship just as much as your to-do list.
Because how you plan together matters just as much as what you’re planning for.
What’s been weighing on you lately?
When every choice feels bigger than it should — and louder than you want it to be.
Timelines, budgets, opinions, expectations… suddenly the fun part feels like another full-time job.
You want to enjoy this season, not just manage it — to feel grounded, connected, and in it together.
"The Engagement Reset helps you find your calm again — no matter how you’re planning."
— Stephanie Laur
Imagine if…
You had simple, steady practices that kept you grounded — even when planning got busy or opinions got loud.
Conversations flowed with more understanding and less tension, so decisions didn’t spiral into stress.
You felt like a united front — aligned, supported, and in sync about what matters most in this season.
Your Reset Starts Here
the Engagement Reset
Here to help you quiet the noise, reconnect with each other, and move through wedding planning with more clarity, calm, and shared direction. This reset supports both your relationship and your process, so every step feels more intentional, manageable, and aligned with what matters most.
what you’ll FIND inside
The Groundwork
Begin with intention. Reset your mindset, align expectations, and get clear on what actually matters to both of you before the decisions start stacking up.
The Connection
Strengthen how you communicate — so conversations feel calmer, clearer, and more collaborative, even when you’re navigating family dynamics, emotions, or big decisions.
The Rhythm
Redesign how you plan around your real lives. Create a flow that feels natural instead of forced, with structure that supports your energy, time, and capacity.
The Integration
Anchor everything you’ve learned with grounding rituals and simple practices that help you stay steady and connected throughout engagement — and well beyond the wedding day.
For the Couple WhO
wants planning to feel good...
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You want to feel more in sync as you make decisions — grounded in values.
02
The pressure, opinions, or pace have started to dull the joy.
03
You’re craving a calmer, clearer way to move through this season.
04
Communication feels a bit tense, and you want tools that help.
05
You want a planning rhythm that supports your real life and your relationship.
HOW IT WORKS
Intentional Sessions
Guided sessions you can move through together in an evening or weekend, without adding pressure.
Tools You Can Use Right Away
Practices, prompts, and rituals that support your connection and help planning feel more manageable.
A Reset You Can Return To
Come back to any session whenever the noise creeps in. This support stays with you through your entire engagement season.
— STEPHANIE LAUR
Because when you’re grounded together, planning stops feeling like a scramble and starts feeling like a shared experience you can grow through.
The best thing you can plan is peace of mind — calm makes everything else fall into place.
Start your reset, your way.
CORE COURSE
All Engagement Reset Sessions
Reflection Prompts and Worksheets
Access to Bonus Resources
Enroll now. Start on February 14th. — Get access as soon as it drops.
plus breathwork!
BONUS OFFER
All Sessions, Prompts, and Worksheets
Access to Bonus Resources
Guided Breathwork Audio Bundle
Enroll now. Start on February 14th. — Get access as soon as it drops.
FAQ
(Frequently Asked Q's)
When does The Engagement Reset begin, and how does it work?
The course officially drops on February 14, 2026. Once you enroll, you’ll receive a welcome email with light reflection prompts and a prep guide to ease in. You can move through the sessions at your own pace — most couples spend about 1–2 hours a week reconnecting and resetting.
How does this fit with the way we’re planning?
Whether you’re working with a planner, using online tools, or taking a more personal approach, The Engagement Reset fits right alongside your process. It’s designed to bring more calm, clarity, and connection to however you’re planning your wedding.
What happens after we enroll?
You’ll receive access as soon as the course drops on February 14th, along with your welcome guide and next steps. From there, you’ll begin your reset — finding your rhythm and protecting your peace through every stage of wedding planning.
MEET Your
GUIDE
STEPHANIE LAUR
After more than a decade in weddings, I’ve learned that calm isn’t found — it’s created. Through State of Amor, I help couples plan with more presence, ease, and connection, turning the process into something that feels grounded, joyful, and true to you.
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