The Engagement Reset COURSE
For couples ready to slow down, reconnect, and plan with intention — without letting wedding stress steal the joy. The Engagement Reset helps you find your rhythm together and bring ease back to this season.
START YOUR RESET
A companion for how you plan.
Wedding planning doesn’t have to run on stress. The Engagement Reset was created to help you plan with more connection, intention, and calm — not to replace your tools, but to work alongside them. You’ll learn to regulate your energy, communicate with care, and bring ease to the decisions that matter most.
Think of it as a rhythm-led reset for the season you’re in — one that supports your relationship just as much as your to-do list.
Because how you plan together matters just as much as what you’re planning for.
What’s been weighing on you lately?
From vendor choices to family opinions, every decision feels bigger than it should.
The joy gets buried under timelines, budgets, and to-dos — even with help on board.
You’re craving time to enjoy this season, not just manage it — to feel grounded, connected, and in it together.
"The Engagement Reset helps you find your calm again — no matter how you’re planning."
— Stephanie Laur
Imagine if…
Tools and practices that help you stay centered — no matter how busy the week gets.
Conversations flow with more understanding, less overwhelm, and a lot more grace.
You feel grounded, supported, and in sync — not just as planners, but as partners.
So, let me introduce you to…
the Engagement Reset
A guided companion for couples who want to plan with more calm, connection, and clarity. The Engagement Reset helps you find your rhythm again — strengthening your relationship and softening the way you plan together.
what you’ll FIND inside
The Groundwork
Begin with intention. You’ll reset your mindset, align expectations, and uncover what truly matters to both of you before diving into the details.
The Connection
Learn how to communicate with calm and clarity — navigating decisions, family dynamics, and emotions with less tension and more teamwork.
The Rhythm
Redesign how you plan around your actual lives — finding a flow that feels good instead of forced, and creating structure that supports your energy and time.
The Integration
Reflect, reconnect, and anchor what you’ve learned with grounding rituals and simple practices that help you stay steady through your engagement (and beyond).
For the Couple Who…
Wants to feel good planning.
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You’re ready to plan with more ease, balance, and alignment.
02
You want a little more presence and peace — not just productivity.
03
You want this process to bring you closer, not just check boxes.
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You’re ready to replace pressure with purpose and plan from the heart.
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You’re craving calm structure that supports you — not chaos.
HOW IT WORKS
Start with Intention
Ground your energy and define what matters most before the planning rush begins.
Plan with Presence
Create space for calm communication, thoughtful choices, and connection along the way.
Keep the Calm
Move through your engagement with ease — and carry that rhythm into married life.
— STEPHANIE LAUR
This reset isn’t about perfect timelines or pretty checklists — it’s about presence, partnership, and intentionally protecting your peace while planning your wedding.
The best thing you can plan is peace of mind — calm makes everything else fall into place.
Start your reset, your way.
Payment Plan
All Engagement Reset sessions
Reflection prompts and couple exercises
Access to bonus resources
Course begins February 2026 — get instant access as soon as it drops.
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Pay in Full
All sessions, prompts, and exercises
Access to bonus resources
Guided Breathwork Audio
Course begins February 2026 — get instant access as soon as it drops.
FAQ
(Frequently Asked Q's)
When does The Engagement Reset begin, and how does it work?
The course officially drops in February 2026. Once you enroll, you’ll receive a welcome email with light reflection prompts and a prep guide to ease in. You can move through the sessions at your own pace — most couples spend about 1–2 hours a week reconnecting and resetting.
How does this fit with the way we’re planning?
Whether you’re working with a planner, using online tools, or taking a more personal approach, The Engagement Reset fits right alongside your process. It’s designed to bring more calm, clarity, and connection to however you’re planning your wedding.
What happens after we enroll?
You’ll receive access as soon as the course drops in February, along with your welcome guide and next steps. From there, you’ll begin your reset — finding your rhythm and protecting your peace through every stage of wedding planning.
MEET Your
GUIDE
STEPHANIE LAUR
After more than a decade in weddings, I’ve learned that calm isn’t found — it’s created. Through State of Amor, I help couples plan with more presence, ease, and connection, turning the process into something that feels grounded, joyful, and true to you.
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With gentle encouragement and an art director's eye, I collaborate with my couples to create effortlessly editorial images full of pure love, stunning backdrops, and natural moments (with just enough guidance!)
Light is my biggest inspiration, and I find weddings to be complex, joyous, fashion-filled, emotional, utterly beautiful celebrations that I can't get enough of.
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